Are You The Woman You Look Up To?
- Charmaine Marinkovich
- Dec 28, 2019
- 4 min read
If you were to be the woman who you look up to, what would that look like for you? What would you do differently. Are you already the woman you look up to? If you're not...then why not? What is stopping you from being all that you are and all that you can be? We tend to have someone we look up to. What is it about them that you love, that you are attracted to, that you admire? You realise, you too can be that person also by adding your own flavour to the mix. What ever you see in someone, you have that in you also, And that goes for both good or bad. What ever you see and focus on in others, is just a reflection of you. But lets' just stick with the good things for now aye... Those good things you see and admire about someone, That is just a reflection of what is already inside you, What is possible for you to also have and be and do in your life. You may think, 'but I'm no where near where they are' But that doesn't matter. What matters is that you can simply start by acting as the person you wish and desire to be right now, where you are. If you admire it, you can be it. Feel what it would be like to act a certain way, Do things a certain way, Live a certain way, See things a certain way, And then start now, where you are in being that way. You are already that person, You just need to start acting like the person that you desire to be. If it feels right for you, if it's a good fit for you, Then just be that woman. Start with just one thing and work on that daily until it is just who you are. Maybe it's the way you interact with people, How you hold yourself, How you make decisions, How you take care of yourself, How you set boundaries, How you speak up for what you need with love, How you take pride in your surroundings and yourself, How you value yours and others times, How you value your worth, How you take full responsiblity for yourself, How you set your own rules, How you take action daily What ever it is, what ever it looks like to be the woman you look up to admire, you can be that woman yourself also. So...what will you do differently today to be the woman you dream to be. Also....Are you joining me for 'Body Love' We start on the 1st August. Why wait until tomorrow, next week, 6 months, next year to love this body of yours. Too often we give others compliments, yet not ourselves. It really isn't about getting the perfect body, but more about accepting your body as it is right now. Acknowledging all that it has done for you this far, The ways it has protected you, kept going no matter what you have thrown at it...it keeps on keeping on. The more you can speak kindly of yourself, of your body, The more you can change they way you see yourself, The more you will receive back in return. Imagine waking up, walking into the bathroom and seeing yourself and not have to try and fight of those negative thoughts being fired at you. Imagine being able to look at yourself with compassion and gratitude. I know this all seems a bit freaken crazy...to speak to your body in this way...I know it feels weird and like 'who does this' But let me tell you that once you can be ok with where you're at with your body, this is when you begin to look after you body better. You start to honour yourself more, You start to choose differently for yourself, in so many areas. After photographing women for many years now, I have seen the difference it makes when you're confident in the body that you're in, no matter your shape or size... You hold yourself differently, You hold your head high because you're ok with being seen. And you deserve to be seen, You deserve to honour yourself in ways that make you feel good. If you're ready to change the way you see yourself, Private message me for details on 'Body Love' - We will work on Acceptance, Forgiveness, Love for self - I will share all that I did to come to enjoy who I am and own the body I have. - How to work through and let go of others opinions / words - Look at how you wish to see yourself moving forward - See how life can be so much more enjoyable when you gain acceptance and love for yourself. No matter where you are in the world, you can all join in. Body Love - let's get you to a place of love. Message me for details.
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