ATTACHMENT WILL SUFFOCATE YOU

Attachment will suffocate you and those around you. We can become so attached to many things in our life. Attached to our partner, Attached to our friendships, Attached to our work, Attached to our children. Thinking we need them and they need us. And in some cases sure...we all need one another, we all require and love connection. Yet attachment has no freedom. When I was married and even in my past relationships...I relied so much on my partners. Not wanting space from them. Being so available to them just in case they needed me, wanted me, which meant holding back on planning things for myself...just in case. I attached myself hard to my relationships because I believed it was the right thing to do. It gave me a false sense of security being with my partner all the time. For a very long time I attached myself to the work I did as a photographer...thinking it's what I always wanted to do, it's what I've always been known to do, so I felt I had to always keeping doing it. Yet we all change, we all learn new things and we all have more than one thing in life that we enjoy....why not bring it all together. We can find ourselves attaching ourselves to our friendships, calling them with every little thing that happens in our life, downloading all our stuff onto them, simply because we're looking for validation, unable to hold ourselves emotionally in these times. What has been the biggest learning for me is letting go. Letting go of attachment around things, around people. No one can fully breathe (you and others) when you become so attached. It leaves no room for creation for bigger and better things. It leaves no room for change, and well, change is always occurring, it's important to embrace change to be able to grow. It leaves no room for better connections. Un-attaching yourself gives you a freedom like no other, It gives you space and time to appreciate what you do have even more. It gives you a chance to come closer to knowing who you are as an individual and not just as a wife, mum, friend etc Ready to swap attachment with freedom? I have spaces available for 1:1 Coaching - Message me for a chat.