CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU!

If you want to see change in your relationships, You must go first. If you want to see change in your family, You must go first. If you want to see change in your career, You must go first. If you want to see change in yourself, You must go first. If you want to see change in YOUR world, YOU MUST GO FIRST.

To often we rely on external things to change first, To make the first step to better OUR world. People, environments, situations etc… Maybe someone gives you energy that you crave, But imagine being able to give that energy to yourself first. Maybe someone makes you feel frustrated and you want it to stop, Imagine being able to let go of that and not take on anyone else’s shit. Maybe you just want someone to love you, Imagine giving love to yourself and to others first before receiving it. Maybe you want a pay rise. Imagine if you could just ask for it and actually receive it because you know your worth.

Ask for what you want, Give what you want.

Learning to hold your space and give you all the feels you want and need in your life isn’t easy, Yet when you can, you will be able to hold your own space well. Everything else will be a beautiful bonus to your life. You will bring more contentment to your life. But you must go first.

Over the years, I’ve had to heal relationships of my own, With friends, with family, with partners. I’ve walked away from a job where the environment wasn’t right for me, I’ve had to go through some shaky moments to ask for what I’ve wanted. I’ve had to let go so I could create space to move forward
And boy…letting go can be harder than holding on something sometimes.

Yet to see change…it’s up to you….to go first.