HOW MANY OPTIONS ARE YOU LEAVING OPEN IN YOUR LIFE?

HOW MANY OPTIONS ARE YOU LEAVING OPEN IN YOUR LIFE?

When things in our life are just another option for just in case, this is a good sign they're not right for us, if it's not a BIG FAT YES then why still have it as part of your life...occasionally, part-time, just in case....

Maybe you're hanging on to that part-time job instead of going full into your own business, doing what you love, building your own future...just incase you fail.

Maybe you're hanging on to those so called friends that when you leave you feel worse than when you arrived, instead of cherishing those relationships that accept you just as you are on every level, no matter what and are right there wanting to cheer you on and vice versa, and both sides make the effort...just in case it's you that needs to change to fit in (nope, no one needs to change, theres just no mutual alignment).

Maybe you're hanging onto that guy who isn't that into you really instead of just shutting the damn door knowing that if he was fully into you, you wouldn't be wondering and waiting, you'd just know by his actions...just incase there's no one else and you end up alone.

There could be a range of things you're hanging onto, just in case nothing better comes along, or you fail, or you make a mistake, or you think something is better than nothing - I get it, I totally get it...maybe or maybe not, this is a message for me just as much as it's a message for you.

Something is NOT better than nothing. Nothing is better than mediocre, it will do. All that deserves to be in your life, deserves to be there because it feels freaking right, A BIG FAT YES because it is totally aligned with your soul, because you get all the feels inside your body just by thinking about it, by being there, by doing that thing.

When it's right, you know. When it's not right, you also know. Feel those feels, Listen to those little whispers, They're trying to tell you what you want in your life. Don't ignore them, honor them...honor yourself.