HOW REAL CHANGE IS MADE

Your ideal relationship...What does it look like? Feel, smell, taste, sound like?...haha ya get the drift How do you show up to it yourself? Well, let me say this...everything, every area in your life... Are you showing up to it like you would your ideal relationship? Many are not! I haven't always. I've been in and out of showing up in many of these areas. Valuing health, then not Valuing money, then not Valuing work, then not. Look at each area and ask yourself, is this how you would show up to your most, amazing, ideal relationship...if not...why not? Do you value it? Do you value those areas of your life? You know you're included in each of those areas right, it is your life after all. Let me say another thing...that you can make a change in an instant! It just takes one decision... that's all. One decision to say 'enough is enough' I'm ready to go...go forth and do. You can be a certain way one day, then the very next day you've made the switch to a completely different way of being. If you value it enough, it will stick. I know this to be so true, because I can recall the times when I made a decision and change was made in an instant. Times when I finally got over myself, my own chit chat (even if for a millisecond) and just damn well decided...No more of this way, it was time for another way. Like when I decided to go and study photography a year earlier than planned, once decided, nothing was stopping me. When I decided to move to Tauranga after all the planning to live in Wellington, once decided, action kicked in and the move was made 2 weeks later. That's just two things, but I have a list right here in front of me, ask long as my arm, reminding me of all the times that when I just 'Decided' action took place and it was all go... Not only just deciding, but being in relationship with my decision, going all in, trusting (the decision), respecting (the decision), honouring (the decision), loving (the decision)...you get my point. This by all means never cancelled out challenges in my decisions, but when you value something, you have it in you to find a way through it, to work things out as they arise. This year I've been pulling from these past times, from these little reminders to myself, which has seen me make some big decisions, with action following suit. So take a look at an area of your life where you'd like to see change, decide what that looks & feels like and get into a relationship with that area, that part of you and show up to it...once you do, you will know what actions are required of you with out a doubt.