I'LL HAVE WHAT THEY'RE HAVING

How can you have a piece of what they're having? You look out to those who you see as having or being what you wish for, for yourself, And you think, how do they get to have it, and well, you don't. How do they seem to walk through life more seamlessly, more freely, Be it in the confidence they hold within themselves, their relationships, their career/business, the freedom etc, etc To you, looking from the outside in, it seems a lot less effort is having to be played on their part, And you feel like life is just one big heavy weight all the time. I get it. But here's the thing, The difference between them, who seem to be cruising life a little easier and those who are carrying the weights around all the time, is simply what you allow into your world. What you choose. They have cleaned up their spaces, They're clear on what and who they let into their world and when, They focus on themselves first, which gives them the energy to then give more to what they're here to bring to the table. They're not giving their time and energy away to everything and everyone that cross their path, they're selective. They're ok with not being liked by everyone or having to please everyone. They know who they are and so their decision making reflects this, they know instantly what's for them and what's not. They're not focusing on what they don't have, but more on what they do have and how to keep moving forward. They give more time to themselves and their life and what they wish to do with this one life of theirs and they just get on with it. This is not to say they don't experience challenges, they do, everyone does. But they see the lesson in it, they let it go, let it be what it is and they carry on. They let go of all the drama around things and find another way. So if you want what they're having, watch them, learn from them then action what you learn. Otherwise you're simply just wasting time on focusing on other peoples lives instead of your own. What has moved me forward in life more than anything, is looking out into my external world with admiration and learning from those who are being and doing what I wish for, for myself. Be it through putting myself in their spaces, investing time and money into mentors and coaches, having conversations with those who are on the court I wish to be on, then choosing it for myself and implementing it into my world. I used to walk around with such a load, not only was it how I felt, but it's what I projected out to the world also. My energy said it all. Today I live so much lighter, because I changed what was in my world. I have days, and on those heavier days I know to remove myself, reflect and adjust - I'm the only one who can do this for myself. If you want what they're having, then you've got to take a good look at yourself and decide to live the same way, otherwise you will continue to carry that weight around...and that shit get's pretty heavy. Through my 1:1 coaching we get down to the nitty gritty of it all to loosen the load that you're holding onto. And it starts with you... no one else can make these adjustments but you. - We will look at where you're spending your time and where you can free yourself. - We will declutter your life so that you are living in your values, your true values, not the ones you feel you should value. - We will work on strengthening your inner foundation so that when life dishes out some curve balls, you've got your own back and have the tools to work through them. - We will look into where you lack or have no boundaries in place so that your energy is no longer zapped with un-necessary things. - We will uncover what truly lights you up so you can step forward into this, which in turn, sees you gaining a fresh new confidence for yourself. The heaviness that you're carrying around is all the extra BS that's not doing you any favours. Message me about working with together 1:1 https://m.me/charmaine.marinkovich