It's All On You...

Have you given up on yourself lately, Dropping the ball, emotional eating, Allowing others words, actions to effect how you play your game?

Well honey, let me just say this.... This is nothing about them, and all about you. Sorry, probably not what you wanted to hear.

You are allowing yourself to be effected, You are allowing yourself to drop the ball, You are allowing yourself to not look after yourself anymore, It's all on you, It's nothing to do with anyone else, but yourself. Everything that is going on in your world is on you.

If you want to see change, it's up to you to take action on that. If you want to see good, that's on you. We can point the finger at others as much as we like, Because well shit, it feels so damn good to pass the responsibility onto others right. But you're the one who is reacting to it all.

Even when you talk to others about others, Your friends, Your family members, about what they are doing, Doing to much, Not doing enough, Needing more of something, Needing less of something, Come on, are you really concerned, Or can you sense a bit of judgement in there... Ask yourself what's that about, there will be a reason...there's always a reason...and it usually points back to something that's reflected in you.

And guess what...I myself did it just the other day, actually I've done it a few times of late, I've judged people in my thoughts and with my words, I could hear myself doing it and it didn't feel good, When I looked at why I was judging them, Guess what...mirror, mirror... It was a sore point I had inside myself....ouch.

If you're concerned about someone close to you, speak to them about it, voice your concerns for them, hear what they have to say...let them speak, listen to them, hear them.

And if you're feeling triggered by others in what they are supposedly doing to you, Tune into yourself and ask yourself what you need to support yourself. What do you need in these moments, What can you do to shift out of those feelings. You don't need another damn quote, another gossip session, another full moon to charge ya crystals, You have all you need right there with you...YOU! Tune in, tune in deep, and listen, All the answers are right there for you.