IT'S NOT ABOUT US

It's never about us, ourselves. In everything that we do, in everything that we experience, it's to never be about us, not when it comes from a genuine place, the place of our very own being. To others it may look that way, That our choices in life are all about ourselves, it can be seen that way, But at the core of it all, it comes from a place of giving back, of service to the world around you. From the work that we choose, The relationships we choose, The lives we choose to lead, It's all for the benefit and better good of those around us. When we choose what is right for us in any area of life, our energy is different, we are more lit up by life, by our actions, which gives a better self to others. Our work, when chosen for what we enjoy, for what we are good at, we are passing our love for it onto others to benefit their life in some way. Our relationships, when we choose what is right in that moment, when we give in a way that doesn't require us to think, which naturally comes through us to give, we each get to give a part of ourselves to another that adds to their world in someway. Even down to our choices of removing something from of our lives, from choosing to not be a part of something anymore, or to do things a certain way anymore, we are actually benefitting those around us, we are giving space for something better to enter their lives that will benefit them even more so, as well as us. And vice versa, when we don't end up with what we wished for, that's the world opening up to benefit us in a new fresh way...It's not about us, it's never about us. The moment we start to make anything about us, we lose, we start to force things to happen, it feels hard and we feel off balance. So bring the focus back to what you love, in the way you enjoy doing things, that naturally come to you, that naturally feel good & right, follow through with all those things and you will be of better service to the world.