LEARN TO BREAK THE RULES...

Learn the rules then learn to break them. We grow up learning the rules of life from our parents, teachers, extended family & community. We learn how to act, what's acceptable, what's not, we learn to mimic those who we admire or lead us, this is only natural as we learn & grow. And not just ask kids, we continue to do this as adults...trying to find our way. It's great to learn new things, to experience these ways, it's what gives us a foundation, a starting point. But once we learn the rules, then start being ok to break them and make it yours, your way, what feels so on point for you. I remember learning how to photograph women, I was taking it all in, step by step, trying it all, following the rules. But the moment I began to break the rules, to take what felt good, leave what didn't, and add my own spin on things, was the moment things really started to shift for me. I did the same with parenting...I took only what felt good for me from what I learnt from my own upbringing and then I created my way of parenting. Have I been challenged along the way... hell yes. But I choose to stand strong in what I felt was right. There is not just one way...there are many ways. And it's about finding your way, what sets you apart, what set's you a light, and rocks your boat, what really works for you, Even if no one else is doing that way, Even if there's no proof that you're way works, It's not about sitting in this life comfortable with what should be, what's acceptable by others, It's learning to sit here with what feels so damn right for you. You get to create that & stand strong within that. When you begin to break the rules and make it your own, This is you living in your full truest expression. Join me in WILD TRUTH if you're keen to break some rules and start living in a way that's true for you. Message me for the link (A free space for all woman who are done following the rules of life)