LET LIFE BE JUST THAT....LIFE.

The world is so caught up in self development. I was, I have been, I still find myself very much being caught up in it all at times, But I'm stripping it back to not look at it like that anymore and just look at it as just life. I remember talking to a friend a couple of years ago when I was deep in sorting shit out, feeling tired and drained by it all and what I thought it all to be or had to be. Then I thought why is it so hard, because that's just what it felt like all the time. Yes I had shit to sort out and yes things worked for me absolutely, Yes I had to go to a place I wasn't ready for, but then again, I obviously was ready to look into where it all took me...and I came out the other side better for it. However when you make your days and life about all that stuff, people expect you to be a certain way...I wrote about this just the other week 'I'm only human' which you can go check out. Thing is it got to a point I felt heavy by a lot of it. And that's when I felt a change in how I saw things, in how I started to show up in my world. I finally started to relax with it all and let life just be what it is. There are days I still go deep diving into areas, but overall I'm so much more relaxed with what life is all about. About how people are and how they choose to show up...that includes myself. I believe we have the answers....for ourselves. I believe if we just listened to ourselves, we get to have an all rounded life - good with the bad, bad with the good. All is an equal exchange. Having conversations with those who you can just let what ever needs to be let out - out...in that moment and it not be anything but what it is, how you're feeling...nothing to fix, nothing to breakthrough and the chance to hear yourself to have what you need come to you...because it does, just listen. We are very good at looking at others and seeing where they need to do the work...ha but what about ourselves. What about where we get to do the work for ourselves, concentrate on our own home, inner home and stop focusing on others. All your choices in life are your choices...they are the decisions you make for yourself, be them right or wrong to others, its what you choose in that moment, and I guess had to happen. Let it be what it is, if it feels ikky, you will know, if it feels right, you will know, if you need to make another choice, you will know. For me now...and I'm still learning to really get to this place of fully owning it... Is trust. Trust in the process of life, Trust in myself and what comes up for me, Trust that I will always make the right choices in each given moment for what needed to be. Ha and to just chill the bleep out and let life be life and that is all.