LIFE IS ZOOMING BY
- Charmaine Marinkovich
- Aug 8, 2023
- 3 min read
Life is zooming by, by a blink of an eye, It only feels like it was yesterday that you were that age, You know that age you kinda liked being….life is zooming by and you wonder what you’ve really done in all that time. I mean, sure, you’re probably in a relationship or experienced a couple, you’ve had kids, you’ve travelled maybe, you’ve done some things, I'd say you've actually built a pretty good life, yet that real sense of achievement hasn’t quite kicked in yet, ok maybe it has from time to time, but you’re still waiting for it to really kick in and stick around. Thing is, we all know that if you can sit and be grateful for what you have, and where you are, you can actually sit and acknowledge you’ve done plenty, but it’s that feeling like you just haven’t done enough yet or done it the right way yet….and if that’s the case, here’s why! You’re not directing things into the right places. Everything requires direction, a place to go, a place to grow, but you’ve got to be the one to direct it there. You’re directing your time into the wrong places You’re not directing your money into the right places, You’re directing your love into the wrong people or work. Your putting your energy in all the wrong places… Ok not completely and entirely the wrong places, but sure as hell not the places for it to grow & thrive to see you at your best self. Many are waiting until they have a certain thing to be able to direct or place it there, but if you don’t start where you are now, with what you have now, you won’t move or grow. Love won’t grow if you don’t give to those who deserve it and receive it now and who are god damn, right in front of you. Money won’t grow if you don’t have a home (a place) for it to go, even if it’s just a dollar into your savings to start, People won’t know about the work you love and do if you keep it to yourself or at large, your circle of friends and don’t share it further afield. You see you need to be the director of your life, of your spaces, of your world and start directing everything into the right places. The longer you hold back, the longer you’ll stay as a squatter in your life, meaning you'll continue to abandon your self needs & desires and never gives yourself permission to go...which means, the quicker time will continue to pass you by. So do you want time to slow down? Of course you do… Then direct your time, energy, money, love into the right places, give them a home where they can thrive. How do you know what the right spaces are for you? Check in, you know already. What feels like a total yes, without even having to think, wonder or question it, any of it, that’s a good place to start. Then check in with yourself, ask yourself when something new arrives if it’s really for you or do you just think it would be cool, fun, exciting for a moment, like a temporary fix. Of course try things out for size, when you feel that’s required, but as soon as you get an inkling that it’s not for you, adjust, see what else, how else or just redirect to something else. Time ALWAYS slows down when you’re in life with what works for you, with what tickles your fancy & gives you a feeling of complete fullness, And when you FINALLY become the director and not the extra in your own life.
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