MAKE THEM UNCOMFORTABLE

That's right, start making others feel uncomfortable. When I say this, I by all means don't mean this in a petty way, but more in a loving, intentional, good for all, way. There are many things in life we would love to be able to do or have, we can wish for things to be different, yet we know it will make others feel uncomfortable...not only for them, but also for us. Yet if we went ahead with it anyway, it could bring growth to ourselves and to others. Let’s look at those three simple words ‘I love you’ Words many haven’t heard from those close to them, as it's just always been the way. Three words that seem so foreign in your many family circles. Yet many would love to hear the sound of those words. So...you go first. If you know it would make you feel good, give it to another first. Same goes with a simple hug. A hug can seem too intimate, show too much vulnerability for some, yet again, it's something that many would love to feel from the important ones in their world. So...you go first. If you want it, give it to another first. And make it a good one...hold them just that little bit longer. The thing is when we give in the places we wish to see change in, it can make others feel uncomfortable, especially if it's new to you and to them. Becoming uncomfortable is the only place newness is made...the new you and also the new them. You do it because you want to and not to get anything in return, but those close to you many will come along for the ride, it’s just about making a new normal for you all. Even look at things to the point of doing something you've always dreamed of doing, that fills you right up to your eyeballs in joy...that not everyone would be keen to do, yet here you are going for it, putting yourself into newness, feeling the uncomfortableness that newness can bring you...there will be times, simply by doing you, being you in a way that feels so soulfully right for you, will make others feel uncomfortable. That there is a space for them to grow & learn within themselves. So please never hold back. Stop holding yourself back to make others feel comfortable...you're doing the world a disservice and yourself. Your honest charisma will flow out the moment you step towards doing what your heart wants for you in this lifetime, so go and start making others feel uncomfortable in the best possible way, with nothing but love at the core of it.