OPEN UP WHAT'S BEEN SHUT DOWN
- Charmaine Marinkovich
- Aug 5, 2023
- 3 min read
The best parts of a person are always missed when it's all shut down. Shut down from speaking the words on their heart, Shut down from being free to express themselves through movement, laughter, their quirky characteristics, Shut down from actually choosing what they wish for, Feeling trapped within their own bodies, Plugged up so tight that you can sense the rumble occurring deep down inside, Like a slow ticking bomb....tick, tick, tick waiting to go off. I see and hear of so many who are feeling trapped. Feeling they're unable to really be all of who they wish to be in this world. Feeling like they have to hold their words back, Feeling like they have to hold back on doing what truly lights them up, Feeling like they have to hold back for another day, for maybe one day, or maybe never. STUFF THAT! Is what I have to say. Everyone one of us has something going on in life, Everyone one has some obstacle in some shape or form, BUT....we all have things that we so dream of being free to do in our simple daily lives. I see this so much in relationships, Shit I even see it in those who are on their own, Holding themselves back all because of, probably, that one person who sits on a little stool in their mind, whispering words they think that person will say to them if they go ahead and do and be. Sometimes they are just the thoughts in our own minds, But I also know they can be the actual words of another that you hear and listen to. I get, you don't want to rock the boat. You want to keep the peace, You want to keep others happy, You don't want anything to fall apart, because, that will hard. I get you, I hear you, I feel you, I know you, Because I was you, and sometimes I still am that. When one feels shut down from being free to express themselves how ever they choose to, You're shutting down the best, and most delicious parts of you. You shut down your confidence, You shut down your sexuality, You shut down your voice, You shut down your body. And the more you shut down, The more anger builds up, The more stressed you feel, The more you begin to judge others, The more resentment you project onto others, The more you stop truly living. If you want to see the best parts of you, the most delicious parts of you...start choosing for yourself. And if you want to see the best parts of your partner...give space for them to choose for themselves too. There is so much greatness in you, I want you to be able to see & experience this for yourself. P.S You have it in you to let out all that's inside of you. You have it in you to be in your own amazing, beautiful, strong, inner power. You have it in you! And I want you to begin to experience these sides of you. The crazy, the messy, the weird, the wild...it's in there waiting for you to unlock the damn door. I'm here to support you through 1:1 coaching, If you're ready to take this ride back home...let's go. Private message me for a chat on how it all works.
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