THE 'GOOD GIRL' IN YOU IS HURTING YOU

We have been taught to be the good girl, To be kind no matter what, To not rock the boat, To keep the peace, To do things to make others happy first, To give up ourselves because others disagree with our ways... But all this has done has made people, in a way, miserable. It's eating a lot of people up inside. Keeping your mouth shut when someone disrespects you - not ok Keeping people in your world when there really isn't any connection - not ok Keeping the peace so one does not ruffle the feathers of another - not ok Staying a part of groups, communities, tribes that no longer align with who you really are - not ok I believe in love, respect and kindness. I also believe that when one is hurting, they hurt others yes, But with all of this, it doesn't give an automatic pass, green light, to have to put up with such treatment, no matter who they are. Sometimes the treatment you receive from others is so subtle...you know it, because you always feel it. We as individuals teach others how we wish to be treated...that is our responsibility. And so, as long as we put up with it, tolerate other peoples bullshit, simply because they're not willing to step up and take responsibility for themselves, you will continue to experience the turning you feel at the pit of your stomach every time you interact with them. You're the only one who can put a stop to this. And maybe, just maybe, when you put a stop to it...it's the wake up call that person requires to make the change within themselves. Protect yourself first and you may just find you didn't just change your life, you also help navigate the change of another, simply by stepping up to the bench mark you're ready to play at. Your energy is being sucked out of you every time you allow this into your world. Your world continues on the same, purely because you're not making any adjustments. I know you feel it's easier to have things stay this way, but let me tell you...it's not easier, not at all. You're just not allowing yourself to find out what it's like to experience it in any other way. Stepping up to what you know feels right for you, doesn't have to be aggressive, it just requires you to make a stand for yourself... your straight words aligned with the actions followed is all that is required, together your power is lit which will open the flood gates for your energy to flow again. People Pleasing & Boundary Crossing is the killer of your soul. Please YOUR soul first and see your people come into your world. P.S We are starting New Script on Monday 20th December. https://www.charmaine-marinkovich.com/new_script BONUS: Join before Wednesday 15th to receive your bonus 1:1 private coaching call with me where we will go deep into what it is you want for yourself. https://www.charmaine-marinkovich.com/new_script If life has you in a holding bay and doesn't give you the excitement you thought it would, Then it's time to replace your current life's script with a brand new one and start showing up to it like you mean it. The only way things change is when you decide to make the change....you have it in you, you really do. I'm here to walk along side you while you navigate a new way of being. Everything you will walk through is what I've already walked through myself and I will guide you with all the tools & understandings that require you to make the shifts.