WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT SPEAK YOUR TRUTH ...

WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT SPEAK YOUR TRUTH I mean if you do, what would others think of you...

Don't speak or show your truth to your friends, your partner, your family...to anyone, How terrible would it be if they saw the real you. The honest you, The raw you.

They might think you're a little crazy if you just be you, Fully, In every way and not play the so called normal way of being, the accepting way of being. I call BS to all of this.

I see it everywhere, I have done this many times, held back. I see so many people holding back. Not wanting to joke around incase it wasn't funny, Not wanting to speak their true thoughts, incase others don't agree, or they come across a certain way that may cause judgement on them, or think you're a bit too much. Keeping things from people in fear of looking like a failure, stupid or what ever else comes to mind. Not doing something you really want to do, due to others opinions, ways and/or limits. Or simply not being a certain way that you'd love to be for yourself, because, once again...of what others will think or say to you, about you.

I see people doing it with their partners to save an argument, incase they don't agree with their way, not wanting to rock the boat in anyway. I see people doing it with their friends in fear of not being fully accepted for who they are and what they choose. I see people doing it with their clients, their work mates, their neighbours.

All this does is shrink you, keeps you smaller than what is possible for you and not allow you to fully experience the true, best version of who you are.

When you can choose to speak and show your truth to all of those around you, those people who enjoy and love you no matter what, will accept all of you, will stay with you though any changes you choose to make. Don't keep yourself down in fear of how others will react towards you, if they're not willing to accept you in any shape or form that you choose to be for yourself, then love yourself enough to choose for you.

Come on. This is your life, no one else's, so how about you start doing what really works for you. Find a way so it can work with the rest of your family too, Don't just give up on yourself because you think there's only one way...the way it is now. There are so many ways that it can work for you, and also for those around you. Get creative. But most importantly, speak your truth.