YOU CAN RUN, BUT YOU CAN'T HIDE

We can change locations, jobs, relationships, homes, communities, when they're not working and I believe there is a time for those changes absolutely, especially if it's really not for you and you've given it a good go of trying to make it work. However if we keep changing when shit gets hard, when it's not working how we wish it to be and it feels easier to just move on, then something more is required to be seen, required for you to pay attention too. If we keep turning up in the same way as we have always done, in each area we keep changing, at the start it will feel good, fresh, new, exciting...like a weights been lifted...but after a while it will start to feel like 'Same shit, different day' Meaning, the same shit will keep showing up, over and over again, the same things will keep happening but just in another location, job, relationship, home etc. So we have to ask ourselves...what keeps repeating itself in that or those areas? What patterns, cycles can you bring to your awareness? If the same things keep happening over and over, then that's on you, something that you're responsible for within yourself, requires your attention. To see change, real change is needed, from the inside out. You have to become so completely honest with yourself, stop believing your own bullshit that you keep telling yourself and start to see the parts you've been playing, for the same things to keep happening. You can't keep running away every-time things get hard. Life will keep bringing you situations, people who rub you up the wrong way, say things that just sound & feel 'wrong' Who challenge you, who will do things that don't line up with your own values or how you'd prefer them to do things...but if you strengthen yourself, set strong inner foundations for yourself, can bring yourself back to your centre no matter what or who you're faced with, you will be ok. You will know when to move, when to speak, pause or simply shake it off. But in the end, you will have to stop running away from the work that's needed for you, that will strengthen you...otherwise you will run out of places to run too and I know you don't want that.