UNDERSTAND YOURSELF AND THE RIGHT PEOPLE WILL TOO

A few weeks back I was asked to adjust something that felt really good and nature for me to do and has done for some time now. I was going about it as it came to me, and just letting it be what it was, Yet, the way that I was doing so, was mostly different to how others did it, do it. For a moment, I listened, I tried and I adjusted.... And it all felt hard, so hard, to the point I felt so closed up, it stopped any flow that I had with it. Throughout our whole life, from being born, going through school, we are told what to do, when to do, how to do. This is why school did nothing for me, and many... Not only was I bored shitless, school really didn't, and still doesn't cater to really make us thrive in our own individual ways. We were not given the opportunity to really find things out for ourselves, which drops the trust we have in ourselves. And so this carries on into our adult hood. Looking for others to tell us how to do, when to do, what to do, We look to our bosses, our partners, our parents still, because so many of us have been conditioned not to think for ourselves. We do it, to a certain point, and then we start to look outside of us for the answers. We are still asking for directions towards our own future, Not trusting ourselves enough that we know all we need right now in this moment and just going for it. And in those small moments when we do trust ourselves, we try so hard to get others to understand us, and so we push to convince them. In the moment that I went outside of me, and adjusted my ways to suit, So much came up. The doubts in my ability and my way started to surface, not trusting in myself and how I do things, I started to question myself again, who am I, what am I about, maybe I know nothing, It felt like I was trying to manipulate things to make it fall better on others ears, It felt like I was trying to work a system, None of it felt good and right for me. And when I really tuned in, what came up was, I don't want to do it this way, and so I won't. It took me SOOOOOO long to get to the point of not trying to get others to understand me, What's important for me is, that I understand myself first, And all those who get what I do, how I do, will just naturally understand it and it will always fall on the right ears. And for those who don't understand, it doesn't matter to me anymore. Now this doesn't mean I don't care, or I'm not willing to learn from others, oh I am ALL for it, I will never stop learning and I care so much, but how I choose to do it, is to listen and then take only what feels like a 100% fit for me. This is where I want to see so many of you getting back to, Back to really trusting in yourself and all that falls softly on your own hearts desires. Working with me 1:1 will help you get to this place using your own inner GPS. When you start to really trust in yourself, life will start to meet you there also, Life will begin to feel lighter, You will know who you are, what you want and you'll be able to ask for it, Your decision making becomes crystal clear and fast, You'll build stronger relationships that are connected and genuine, You'll see how cleaning up the background makes room for what you truly want, And you will stop blocking the road thats in front of you, just waiting for you to make your way down it. If any of this lands on you, Message me about my 8 weeks, 1:1 coaching sessions and I'll get all details through to you.