WE DID IT TO OURSELVES
- Charmaine Marinkovich
- Aug 5, 2023
- 2 min read
Just because you're a mum, a wife, a business woman, Whatever hats you wear in your life, It doesn't mean to say, you have to step away from who you are, And who you have always been inside. It doesn't mean you have to stop playing, Stop being and feeling sexy, Stop laughing and having fun, Stop being a little wild every now and then. We did that to ourselves, We allowed ourselves to be dulled down, We allowed the roles that we play in life to create a greyer version of ourselves in some way. Thinking that each role, had to look a certain way. When it doesn't, Not at all. NOT AT ALL! You get to create how you look and feel. You get to create it, by being it. In how you think about it. Shift your way of thinking about things, and you will look at it differently. When we step into these roles each day, we get to choose how we feel about it all. Just take a look at yourself when you go out for a night on the town with friends. You let loose don't you, 'Finally', you say....'I can be myself' And for many, we sip away on our drinks to give us the courage that we need to be ourselves ...for a night. Then as the sun rises again...we remember the roles we must/need/should play...and we step into character...again. 'Back to the norm' we say with a big sigh. It doesn't have to be this way. Choose what you wish for and be it.... Bring the energy of that into yourself. And be that person, Around your partner, Around your kids, Around your friends, Around your family. Let them experience who you actually are in this world. Don't hide from them or from yourself. And how do you find out who you are, who you've always been? You come out and play, Feel the freedom of play, Laugh and joke to what ever tickles your fancy, Let your cheeky side come through, Explore different people, places and experiences. But take the chains off yourself...stop giving your joy away to what you think you should be, Every one of us has so much greatness in us that we just aren't allowing ourselves to tap into. Me included...I know where I'm not, I'm so aware of it, but I'm doing something about it. And you can to. You really can. When you can be yourself, no matter who is with you, You are teaching your children to do the same, And I trust that you wish to see your kids live in truth for themselves. Are you ready to come out and play in this world? I'd love to meet you as that person.... 1:1 coaching to support you in this transition is available with me now. Flick me a message for a chat. P.S This photo is not what you first think haha. My friends have introduced me to a 'Mate' A South American infusion...which my tastebuds are still adjusting to.
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