WILL THE DEMANDS EVER LEAVE?
- Charmaine Marinkovich
- Aug 7, 2023
- 2 min read
The demands will never go away... They will always be there until you stop answering to them. You see, life has many demands on us, so many. Just look at each area of life and you could create a list for each I'm sure and this is how life can get away on us so quickly and so easily. Places to be, People to see...Things to do...the list continues and the frustration grows. 'When will I get a break' you think. 'When will I have time to do the things I want to do' you think. When you stop answering to all the demands...is when. I know and I see so many out there saying 'YES' to everything and everyone. You're taking on all the responsibility for yourself and of others, not letting them take full responsibility for themselves. You see it as caring, loving, supporting...I get it, But really you're not trusting... not fully, not deeply. Not trusting yourself to let go and loosen the reins, Not trusting yourself to be able to give yourself what you truly want for you, Not trusting others in their capability, 'It's quicker if I do it myself' you think, 'I don't want to bother them' you think, 'I don't want any conflict' you think, 'They always do it wrong' you think, When we continue to think this way...the demands will continue. If you want a break, If you want your time, If you want a life with less demands, Then start showing up for yourself in the way of saying 'NO' to what you wish to say no to. By giving others back their responsibility, By putting your requirements first so your tank is full and then what time is left, use it in the right places. In simple form...Set Boundaries! Set boundaries for yourself and for others. And see less demands come your way and life open up for you. Don't know how to set boundaries, where to start or how to stick to them? I'm here to support you with that. Honestly when you do they make the biggest difference. 1:1 coaching sessions available - Message me for details. https://m.me/charmaine.marinkovich
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